recently a friend of mine got into a relationship which i reckoned is a ticking time-bomb because i don't trust that guy. period. i believe he's a kid living in a body of a 2* year old. trust me. 2 weeks. TWO god damn weeks were all i need to freaking shun him from my life. okay. i'm exaggerating. two god damn weeks were all i need to freaking shun him. period. what happened in those two weeks?? oh, i swear you wouldn't want to know. what i'm saying here is not to destroy this relationship. i'm just worried, just like everyone else who knows her. if you are in my shoes you would have too. my girlfriends reckoned we should talk to her about it. about the guy. as a friend we should at least warn her. me? to me it's the last thing i want to get myself into. i've been that "concerned friend". been there, done that. and you know what happened? i was misunderstood and my friend hated me. regardless of how i handled the whole thing it didn't change a single fact that my deed went from good to bad because apparently, someone didn't take that liberty to explain things properly and dragged me into a mess he created. you might not know what i am ranting here right? haha. basically, i was asked to help this friend of mine because he was having relationship problems. i thought although i can do very little to help him but as a friend i should at least help him by being a listener. for numerous times i was asked for advice. however, i did not give any constructive ones. all i said or advised him to do was listen to his own heart and make his own decision based on his conscience. he did exactly what he thought was right. in the end, when things turned out badly i found out i was being blamed for not being a good "advisor".  from that day onwards i see that person i assumed as my good friend differently. the truth is, he has disappoint me in every single way. and i'm still waiting for the day where i'd have the guts to tell him that. anyways, this happened decades ago and i wanted to forget this so badly. so, based on this awful experience i chose not to get myself involve in her relationship. if anything goes wrong in her relationship, i'd feel terrible. i know i would. but would i regret making this decision? i don't know. i might. as the matter of fact i'd always regret the choices i made. i learnt things the hard way. i fell but eventually i gathered all my nerves and got up. therefore if any thing goes wrong maybe. maybe this will be a learning experience for her. what i am doing now you might reckon it as selfish and ruthless. trust me, i hate myself for making this decision too. but having another friend hating me for prying into her affairs? nope... bad idea. sorry, i cannot bring myself to tell her whatever i should tell her. i trust my intuition more than i trust her. sorry.